Make Excuses Or Make A Fortune: Your Choice (Pt.1)

Never start your day by watching the news.

I learned that lesson this morning. Thanks to the upcoming election, everything was negative about the candidates. However, what got me fired up was when they started talking about taxes (my point is financial, not politics, so I’m leaving names & political parties out).

They showed clips of one of the candidates who is proposing higher taxes on the rich in order to help the middle and lower classes. I was fine until he used the word “selfish” referring to wealthy people. Of course, if you want an applause, go in front of a crowd of low income voters and talk about how the rich are “selfish” (nevermind the fact that the guy calling rich people selfish is a millionaire). To their own demise the crowd gave their applause. Let me explain.

Don’t Be Your Own Victim

This bothers me immensely because it promotes a victim mentality. It says, “I’m poor because you’re rich.” It’s a mentality that is common among people who do not have money. It’s just easier to blame others for our problems than it is to take responsibility for them ourselves.

In his best-selling book “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind” T. Harv Eker makes this statement: “You have to realize that if you view rich people as bad in any way, shape or form, and you want to be a good person, then you can never be rich. It’s impossible. How can you be something you despise?” He goes on to say that “resenting the rich is one of the surest ways to stay broke.”

If you ever want to become wealthy, you have to develop a healthy relationship with money and with those who have it. The bottom line is that when you blame others for your problems, you are giving control of your life away to someone else. Do you really want to do that?

Success is a Personal Issue

If you really want to be successful, you have to stop making excuses, even if they are legitimate.  The minute you let something external determine your level of success is the minute you won’t have any. I’m serious. You’d be amazed at how much we limit ourselves by making excuses. Let me give you a personal example that just happened to me.

On Sunday night Beth & I were watching ABC’s Extreme Makeover Weight Loss Edition. In one year this wonderful lady lost over 160 pounds, and overcame incredible odds to reach her goal, including a very dysfunctional family. I’ve been carrying around an extra 30 pounds for several years now, so I knew immediately that if she could do it, then I no longer had any excuse. So here I am on Sunday night all motivated to lose weight, and BAM! On Monday while playing with Macey I broke my toe! (I wish I was making this up).

Is a broken toe a legitimate reason to not exercise? Of course it is!

But, if I allow myself to be the victim, then I’m giving control of my life over to a negative circumstance that happened to me. In reality, a broken toe will limit me but it cannot stop me. It may make it difficult, but it does not make it impossible! With a little creativity (such as swimming instead of running, only doing upper body workouts for a while, etc) it doesn’t even need to slow down my progress.

So how do YOU view the wealthy? What is your response to excuses? Stay tuned for our next post where I share two powerful exercises which will set you free from excuses.

Committed to your success,

-Wesley

P.S. Please leave us a comment! What are some excuses you’ve been tempted to make recently?

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